Be Anyway | Be Yourself
Be Autonomous | Be Authentic | Be Adaptable – regardless of circumstance.
Regardless of circumstance.
Be Yourself Anyway. Be Autonomous.
Be Authentic. Be Adaptable.
It is paramount to express your true self in life and find meaning and purpose in every moment, everything you do, by just being you. When you have a strong sense of self, you live in the knowledge that nothing external can ultimately affect your potential for contentment. You are free to get the most out of the roles you take on in life. Imagine how you can flex with life’s uncertainties when you allow your roles to adapt to circumstance, knowing that your sense of self remains stable.
The person who you have always been and are now, without the label, without the story, is the one who survives life’s dramas.
It is not too late to apply this to your life. Doing nothing is scarier than doing something. What are you waiting for; your next life?
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Books by BNE
BREAK-UPsides – Feel-better Quick-Fixes for the breakup aftermath.
This book is a Quick Fix D.I.Y. pocket guide for reinventing, redesigning, and reevaluating your life after relationship break-ups. It is full of pick-me-ups you can refer to whenever your mood calls for it.
Inspired by finding a natural sense of self after a near-death surfing accident and a marriage breakdown, Change-Readiness coach Bartholomeus Nicolaas Engelbertus set out to help people improve their lives after their own life-changing events.
Through his many years of coaching, Bartholomeus has developed a range of techniques for self-improvement, which he has now compiled in this easy-to-use book. By applying them, he is confident you will find the relief, positivity and self-belief to move confidently towards meaningful relationships.
Waves of Change – How to Unleash The Power of The Natural Self
Where the previous titles facilitated you to be your authentic Natural Self, Bartholomeus’s latest book focusses on how to apply The Natural Self to your roles in life. Just like The 7 Step Guide for Resilience, and its Kindle counterpart Be Stress Free – 7 Easy Steps for Resilience, expect a powerful simplistic hard-hitting little book full of practical tools and tips. Waves of Change – How to Unleash the Power of The Natural Self is less of a ‘workshop in a book like the previous titles, and more of a ‘How to Authentically Design your Life’ application. It takes The Natural Self and relates this to other people, what drives human behaviour, why people follow your leadership, understanding the value of other people’s perceptions, how to solve problems, insights in love and relationships, how to have positive mind wandering, how to get out of your own way, and how to feel great when the day starts and finishes.
The 7 Step Guide for Resilience
This ‘workshop in a book’ teaches you how to be your natural authentic self. It also features a compatibility relationship model which enables you to adapt your behaviour to maximise results from dealing with other people. In this book Bartholomeus Nicolaas Engelbertus explains the difference in what causes stress and why it is relevant to know the difference. You then enter the workshop module of the book in which you undertake a journey to your natural self. After this you learn how to turn negative emotions into positive experiences, and read about how to sustain your resilience.
Author, Change Ninja, Antifragilist:
Dutch Leadership coach Bartholomeus N.E. graduated from the Haarlem Business School in the late nineties and initially embarked on a Business Consultancy career until a near-death surfing accident sparked his interest in the psychology of the self-perception. Driven by his understanding from that drowning experience he studied a broad range of personal development techniques. He became a Master NLP Practitioner specialising in the application of Clean Language in Neuro Linguistic Programming. In this specialised field, clients own their answers and learn how to make the most of their natural skills. He created an elegant, yet simple means to making you/your team do much better with (unexpected) change. He believes no system or business architecture copes with the pace of today’s change if the key people in the organisation are not capable of dealing with unexpected change.
Over the years, his work has taken him from Europe to Australia, Canada, Mexico, the United States, and Great Britain. His wide variety of clientele contributed to the constantly evolving processes of role dissociation techniques he calls the Natural Self System. In his free time, he is an avid surfer and second-Dan black belt Bujutsu martial artist.